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Cigarette Papers. The Pros and Cons of Married Life. In commencing this paper, let the ^ader understand that I shall treat the Matter from an outsider's point of view. 111 not a. married man, have never been, iIelther do I contemplate such a change in my fortunes. I know that many of my Readers, after reading the above coll- ision, will dispute my authority on the .Uoject; but let it be understood that it ,? onlooker who really sees most of i game. Naturally, one cannot expect ut a very prejudiced view on the sub- let which I am about to treat from a carried person he is an interested party, and therefore his opinions are at a dis- count, b Married life, like every other disput- able thing, has its good and its bad Points; its advantages and its disadvan- ages. Indeed, it is this feeling of un- cel't,ailItY about the matrimonial state tat prompts so many youths and maidens t(I rush helter-skelter into it. Humanity So constituted that that in which Ppears an element of uncertainty and ystery appeals very forcibly to its mind. ((ake away the glamour of mystery and Venture" from the fair ship of matri- r1')l.xy, and there would be a considerable ailing 0ff jn t|ie number of those who °uld embark in it. Such has been the ,<>ng tendency in mankind from the of Eden, and such will it remain Doomsday. tndeed, it, was this desire to penetrate into the mysterious and unknown that Counted for the downfall of Adam and j Ve in the Garden and it is this same 0ve, this same longing after a mysterious ^antity that accounts, and will account, the downfall of their progeny until il(- crack of doom. Then, the real in- ^pcement to married life is not the advan- .^ges which it confers UDOU the contract- S parties, but it is simply blind obedi- to an unwritten law of the human ttiuid. I J0 ^aiback to the subject on which cab*' Se^ out> ^et me first analyse the so- J(. -d advantages which accrue to the ,au and woman who have deliberately g osen this form of existence. In the j.j'^t place, what counts for their mar- i age? My first answer to this is what I stated above—the glamour of a tli frious existence. Following upon 'at comes the desire on the part of two snfc°-ns W'1K> think they love and care gently for each other to spend the Attainder of their days together. The aslr wiiich prompts a young man to ar the bashful maid to become his wife WV tar removed from the ideas ^ich ]le -jvould entertain of that young id usefulness to himself. Such an n'n(' cases out of ten never enters Qu -ea(l- In short, he goes about the j 6«tion in a very unbusinesslike manner. toany cases, men wed women whom „ ey know cannot be of any benefit and on? Use t° themselves. This is proved SB ^()<> often by the many tales of un- unhappiness which are unfolded tin Divorce Court. eawi- then, is the real motive? To be j)> ftid, it is a very selfish one. A young conceives a passion for a maiden; tr_ flights in her company he is at- go d by her charm of manner and he ljaes about under the delusion that he a Sot a heart, whereas in reality he has <tauei!y common coloured stone. This J'ftn0" Is petted and fostered by the a.\i 11 g lady, who sniddles aiid diddles in of extraordinary gymnastic feats, two are betrothed. This delusion Vs off in the first few weeks of their (?) life, and that which appeared be a fairy landscape before has by now {Jfj.transformed into a desert of gestae troubles and worries. 10. Ven assuming that the ship of matri- mony has been launched on a pleasant a., a favourable breeze blows, and there is "el'y prospect of a really pleasant f^i'ney, what then is in store for the 1 arried man ? In the first place, he J *es the glorious freedom of his bachelor He is no more the independent is vIdual caring for none or nought. His l>oi J life of a liaPle,ss slave, driven and ^a<sf by that most- intractable of all MfjSuers—Woman. She reigns supreme in she .exercises her tyrannous t0T) er' and, what is worse, her venomous -e' OT) that poor miserable creature clot}lls privileged to win her bread and inflp^Jier body. Her decrees are as as the laws of the Medes and 6avjiSans' ail(l a failure to obey them the undying hatred which her f°rth S natnre is capable of putting is a demi-god, wielding an c influence besides which the ca,nCo of the Czar pales into insignifi- yearns for an existence her despotic power ? Certainly, not F AGIUS,

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